The Princes Room at the magnificent Grand Hotel in Eastbourne was the setting for the marriage of these two wonderful people in May 2025. The Sussex Registrars were happy to perform the legal aspects of the marriage immediately preceeding my ceremony – even kindly handing over and introducing me to the front of the room.
A Symbolic ‘Unity Candle’ prayer
My couple had chosen to include the Unity Candle symbolic action near the beginning of their ceremony. This is a beautiful way to show that their lives are now one, by illuminating a central pillar candle with the two candles which symbolise their individual lives ; however, by keeping their own candles lit, they symbolise the importance of their individual personalities and philosophies. This was enhanced with significant, personally selected readings from Tolkein and CS Lewis.
A souvenir certificate
Even though they had now completed the legal aspects and signed the registrar’s certificate of marriage earlier in the ceremony, I always provide a bespoke souvenir certificate to enhance the civil celebration part of their wedding, which I officiate. On this occasion, the pianist Phil Morton, underscored the signing with Bette Midler’s ‘The Rose’. The certificate was co-signed by both sets of parents.
A great connection between celebrant and clients is vital
With their mutual passion for amateur musical theatre, we had fast established a coincidental connection during our first conversation. They had cemented their relationship journey, having both appeared in a local amateur production of Stiles and Drewes ‘Just So!’ – I was delighted to share that George Stiles and Anthony Drewe, the composer and lyricist of this musical were close friends of mine since our university days in Exeter in the early ’80s! Also, I appeared in the very original professional production of ‘Just So!’ in 1984, in Plymouth. And so, with our mutual interest in musicals, it was a joy to work with my couple to create the perfect wedding ceremony.
Following a successful Celebrant Conference in Nottingham at The Village Hotel, Beeston, I am thrilled, as civilcelebrantsussex, with the feedback from my Workshop in Body Language. I am also so happy to have received a nomination in the BEST FUNERAL CELEBRANT category – I congratulate all of the worthy winners in all categories. Thank you to the entire AOIC team for your continued support and friendship.
What are the unique benefits of having a Civil Celebrant with a West-End Musical Theatre Background?
Imagine your ceremony being created and delivered by an experienced West-End actor/singer.
My name is Mark Inscoe; but I have been known as Raoul, Grantaire, Henry Higgins, King Richard the Lionheart, Dean Martin, Lumiere and even Bernadette!
Now, I am a fully trained, Brighton-based civil celebrant creating and delivering couples ceremonies, weddings, commitments, vow renewals; also funeral and celebration of life ceremonies and naming ceremonies. I cover not only Sussex, but have worked further afield, nationally and internationally, including destination weddings in Mallorca.
I have enjoyed an extraordinary career, previously, performing in numerous musical theatre productions, many in London’s West End. Musicals including Les Miserables, The Phantom of The Opera, Sunset Boulevard, Disney’s Beauty and the Beast, Priscilla Queen of the Desert and The Ratpack Live from Las Vegas!
When it comes to planning a wedding or commitment ceremony, the choice of celebrant can make a significant difference in the overall experience. Imagine having a civil celebrant who not only brings professionalism and warmth to your ceremony, but also has a background in West-End musical theatre. This unique combination offers several benefits that can make your special day truly unforgettable.
Exceptional Presentation Skills
As a celebrant with a career in West-End musical theatre, I am no stranger to the stage. My experience in performing before large audiences means I possess exceptional presentation skills. I know how to project my voice, maintain eye contact, and engage with the audience, ensuring that every word of your ceremony is heard and felt by all present.
Creative Flair
Theatre professionals are inherently creative individuals. As a celebrant with a varied theatrical background, I can bring a touch of creativity and flair to your ceremony. Whether it’s through the use of dramatic pauses, expressive readings, or even incorporating elements of performance, I can craft a ceremony that is both unique and memorable.
Personalized Touch
One of the hallmarks of a great celebrant is their ability to personalize the ceremony to reflect the couple’s story and values. As a celebrant with a background in musical theatre, I am adept at storytelling and can weave your personal narrative into the ceremony in a way that resonates deeply with you and your guests. My ability to connect emotionally with the audience ensures that your ceremony feels intimate and heartfelt.
Confidence and Poise
Performing in the West-End requires a high level of confidence and poise. These qualities are invaluable in a celebrant, especially when unexpected situations arise. Whether it’s dealing with a sudden change in weather or calming pre-ceremony jitters, a celebrant with theatrical experience can handle any situation with grace and composure.
Enhanced Atmosphere
Theatre professionals understand the importance of atmosphere and ambience. As a celebrant with a background in musical theatre, I can help set the tone for your ceremony, creating an atmosphere that is both celebratory and solemn. My ability to read the room and adjust my delivery accordingly ensures that the ceremony flows smoothly and keeps everyone engaged.
Memorable Performances
If you’re looking to add a special touch to your ceremony, with my experience, I can offer a unique performance. Whether it’s singing a meaningful song, reciting a poem with dramatic flair, or even incorporating a short theatrical piece, my previous experience can add an extra layer of magic to your special day.
Professionalism and Reliability
Theatre professionals are known for their dedication and professionalism. As a celebrant with a West End background, I bring this same level of commitment to my role. You can trust that I will be well-prepared, punctual, and fully invested in making your ceremony a success.
Conclusion
Choosing a civil celebrant with a career in West-End musical theatre offers a range of benefits that can elevate your ceremony to new heights.
I have been asked to use my singing skill to add a different highlight to a couple’s celebration ceremony – for example;
While they were signing their souvenir certificate at their Vow Renewal ceremony, one couple asked if I would sing an significant song (‘She Wears My Ring’ by Elvis Presley) which had been played for their first dance, 30 years previously.
Another couple who had both been married before, were celebrating their marriage together. I sang ‘The Second Time Around’ by Frank Sinatra, the beautiful lyrics of which could have been written for them!
My presentation skills, creative flair, and ability to personalize the ceremony ensure that your special day is both memorable and meaningful. With my confidence, poise, and professional dedication, you can rest assured that your ceremony will be in capable hands, leaving you free to enjoy every moment of your celebration.
